Alas, romance!

So, there is this girl. She works at a store nearby my apt. She's cute, and from what little interaction I've had with her, she's nice. Now, I'm not one to brag, but sometimes, I swear I catch her staring at me. Anyways, I'm balless. I've never really just waltzed over to someone and started talking to them. What to do... Blu __________________ You should go over to her and talk to her... wait a few days and find out the car she drives, stick a rose on her windsheild with your phone number... Now thats if she seems interesting.... __________________ maybe u could dance for her Seriously though, just go up and talk to her and maybe offer to take her out to dinner. __________________ Quote: Originally posted by bella wait a few days and find out the car she drives, stick a rose on her windsheild with your phone number... Now thats if she seems interesting.... Would that be considered stalking. __________________ Quote: Originally posted by gotmilk Quote: Originally posted by bella wait a few days and find out the car she drives, stick a rose on her windsheild with your phone number... Now thats if she seems interesting.... Would that be considered stalking. Um I thought that too .. but if BluGuy has a feeling that she checks him out... then I don't think she would mind... Someone did that for me and let me tell ya,, I was soooo surprised,, and it made my day... __________________ But Stare back everyonce in awhile, make a point of going to your mailbox in boxers and drink a diet coke... Really just go over and talk... take it slow... __________________ I don't know about the rose on the windshield. I would run like hell if a guy did that to me, it screams potential stalker. Just talk to her, no great lines needed. Start with "Hi" and see how she responds. __________________ Digarno pizza, a six pack and a chick flick and its all good my freind __________________ Quote: Originally posted by TheBluGuy So, there is this girl. She works at a store nearby my apt. She's cute, and from what little interaction I've had with her, she's nice. Now, I'm not one to brag, but sometimes, I swear I catch her staring at me. Anyways, I'm balless. I've never really just waltzed over to someone and started talking to them. What to do... Blu *sigh* This sounds all too familiar __________________ I feel ya my friend. Sometimes I wish I was blessed with what we call cajones.. Looking at a girl is easy, thinking is easier, hell, even talking to them is easy.. but it's trying to convince your feet to start walking over towards her that is hard. Many a time have I been called weird when I find myself talking to a girl.. but she's not there.. I haven't moved towards her to speak yet.. Oh well.. you live you learn.. __________________ Just go ahead and talk to her. No guts, no glory. Good luck. __________________ Quote: Originally posted by dodo90024 Just go ahead and talk to her. No guts, no glory. Good luck. easier said than done. __________________ I know it's easier to say than to do. But if you're not aggressive enough, she may slip away and maybe she is "the one" for you. You can still be shy but never miss a opportunity. I talked to a girl in the ackermon union when I was playing arcade. She looks like Hamasaki? Ayumi, so cute. Got her phone #, cell phone #, address and they are all real. LOL! We also went to some party after that. Once again, no guts, no glory. Peace. __________________ Quote: Originally posted by The Happy Squirrel Digarno pizza, a six pack and a chick flick and its all good my freind oh yea i am a 19 year old girl and that is my idea of romance! __________________ Quote: Originally posted by maggiebirdie Quote: Originally posted by The Happy Squirrel Digarno pizza, a six pack and a chick flick and its all good my freind oh yea i am a 19 year old girl and that is my idea of romance! never said it was romantic im totally into romance but i have a hard time finding women who are into it so i need to adapt that is what alot of the girls i know would really respond to i have totally different ideas on how to approach things but i need to do what works __________________ True that. Oddly, my girlfriend is not into romantic stuffs. Guess she is too shy. __________________ Oh, so that's your name BluGuy? The one that comes to the store every 30 minutes? Well, sorry to break it to you BluGuy, but the only reason that I'm nice to you is because my manager forces me to do so to customers. Originally people say I can be quite an ass. And HA!! For some reason it seems like all guys think people are staring at them when they get one coincidental eye contact. And mind you! I'm a guy for chrissake. __________________ Quote: Originally posted by ucbstan And mind you! I'm a guy for chrissake. ya coulda fool'd me. you wouldn't happen to know Nicemann, would ya? __________________ Just go talk to her and pray she doesn't already have a boyfriend. __________________ Quote: Originally posted by hapoo you wouldn't happen to know Nicemann, would ya? Nicemann? yeah, what about my other login name? Mavi forum